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co.de.pen.dence (co.di.pen´.dens) n. [root ME. dependaunce <> Also written co-dependence. The condition or fact of being codependent; specifically, a) tendency to place the needs and wants of others first and to the exclusion of acknowledging one's own, b) continued investment of self-esteem in the ability to control both oneself and others, c) anxiety and boundary distortions relating to intimacy and separation, d) difficulty expressing feelings, e) excessive worry how others may respond to one's feelings, f) undue fear of being hurt and/or rejected by others, g) self-esteem dependent on approval by others, h) tendency to ignore own values and attempt to adhere to the values of others.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Happy Mother's Day

I wanted to share some thoughts and quotes that I have found on Mothers, family, parenting and children over the years.  I love searching for and finding good quotes and messages to lighten the load, lift the spirit and stretch the mind.

As each mother's day approaches, I am always amazed at how little I feel I deserve any recognition as a mother. Yes, I do the same things as most mothers: driving, teaching, healing, fixing, playing, snuggling, praying, laughing, crying, cleaning, reading, reminding, encouraging, supporting and yes, at times, even hollaring! But what makes me a good mom, if I am one? I know my kids don't expect perfection. In fact I am reminded on occasion just how horrible I am compared to other moms who let their kids go see Iron Man II the night it comes out...not that that issue came up recently....uhem.
Anyway, I am feeling very grateful that my children can find reason behind wanting to celebrate this day with me! I wouldn't be a mother without them so I am very grateful for their making me a mom.
They teach me so much that I am so very grateful for! They are the greatest examples of being forgiving, humble, submissive, patient, loving and faithful.  Everyday I am in awe of their ever growing talents and abilities. They are so giving and want to much to help others be happy. Including their mom.
They have put up with a lot in our family. A lot more than I ever wanted or expected that they would have to. But they are stong, both spiritually and emotionally and they are very courageous. I know they will be amazing men and husbands some day...in spite of my efforts. :)
I hope these quotes brighten your day, as they do mine.
"The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new." ~Rajneesh
"I remember my mother's prayers and they have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life." ~Abraham Lincoln

"Before I got married I had six theories about bringing up children; now I have six children, and no theories." ~John Wilmot
"Children are a great comfort in your old age - and they help you reach it faster, too." ~Lionel Kauffman
"Insanity is hereditary; you get it from your children." ~Sam Levenson
"Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body." ~Elizabeth Stone
"Sing out loud in the car even, or especially, if it embarrasses your children." ~Marilyn Penland
"The world is as many times new as there are children in our lives." ~Robert Brault
"Children are unpredictable. You never know what inconsistency they're going to catch you in next." ~Franklin P. Jones
"Children seldom misquote. In fact, they usually repeat word for word what you shouldn't have said." ~Author Unknown
"A child is a curly dimpled lunatic." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Children find everything in nothing; men find nothing in everything." ~Giacomo Leopardi
"Anyone who thinks the art of conversation is dead ought to tell a child to go to bed." ~Robert Gallagher
"The real menace in dealing with a five-year-old is that in no time at all you begin to sound like a five-year-old." ~Joan Kerr, Please Don't Eat the Daisies, 1957

Happy Mother's Day!

2 comments:

The Paredes Family said...

I love that quote by Elizabeth Stone! I never knew how true that could be until I had Logan. Thanks for writing today Sara.

Chelsie said...

Thanks woman! I love the quotes, they are too awesome. I am so impressed by you and I am continually thinking of your last post. You showed strength and it inspires me to be stronger. Thank you for posting!